Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july

We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let the lady glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. We have done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone I will be.

Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my option to attempt to communicate with her, but if she sets the record right with all the gf, hopefully she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a problem to your man being the problem, which can be what’s going on.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july

As well as, exactly exactly exactly what can you wanna bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into each other actually just a coincidence?

Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am

I’m able to understand why you’d believe that way, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We read the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, not the ex-BF present relationship. Thats simply a complicator. The LW is only able to get a grip on her very own actions, and ignore the ex-BF calling and annoying that is being. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls need not be buddies at all. It could you need to be an additional connect to the guy when it comes to LW, that is wanting to cut ties that are emotional.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july

Thats a great point for sure!

Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am

Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I accustomed be buddies using this number of dudes whom once had such lady-issues, and all the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then we realised it ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. Therefore the girls had been all simply normal individuals who, you realize, desired to determine if they’d a boyfriend or not…….

Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july

Yea. Its love, as soon as that occurs enough times- what’s the typical denominator? YOU MIGHT BE!!

I do feel harmful to this new GF. She deserves to own a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves some guy who isnt hung through to his ex, calling her and telling her which he nevertheless dreams intensely about her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW as the man is telling her a lot of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.

Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:09 am

Personally I think bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its difficult being the girlfriend that is first a long relationship, but thats really why many people go into all of them with their eyes available. Oh and the man has to“ stop droppingBut i’ve a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real method the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, maybe you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”

Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july

Yeah that “but I have a girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He desires the LW become like “well I don’t care if you do have a GF, i am going to nevertheless blow you” or “Dump that skank, and get back to me”

Katie July 17, 2012, 10:27 am

Yea, its like whenever i was in twelfth grade and me personally and my boyfriend would split up almost every other week, and then he would “accidently” text me personally or something like that just therefore we would fight to get right back together.

Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 2:45 pm july

@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and obtain back together”

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am

I’ve said right here a great deal, if the man whips out of the word “crazy” I run one other means. I understand therefore lots of men whom utilize that word to full cover up for his or her dickish behavior.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am

We don’t understand why individuals would phone some body crazy into the place that is first. I simply state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact which you place a “crazy” label about it, makes me think you are one that loves to stir the muck.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am

Additionally, if you’re prepared to phone somebody crazy, wouldn’t which means that you will be kinda crazy too?

Rilooyah 17, 2012, 4:44 pm july

Therefore true! When the” that is“crazy away, Im operating one other means. I believe it absolutely was stated above- whenever you attract the crazy, the typical denominator is constantly YOU, friend.

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:21 am

To be honest, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about this too, and yet she continues to respond to this guys calls despite the fact that he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of the bull shit.

Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 10:26 am

Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk to the woman since your simply planning to cause drama. You must just understand he’s maybe not your boyfriend and also that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.

Katie 17, 2012, 10:35 am july

This is certainly a great point, you dudes. I didnt consider it like this.

So LW, if you truly do respect their relationship and wish them happyness, keep them alone!! Like eljay (I adore you, eljay) said, some one has got to function as adult in this case. If he could be maybe not happy to be, you should do it.

Painted_lady July 17, 2012, 2:17 pm

Amen bestie – I accept you about talking towards the gf. That knows exactly what this guy has said concerning the LW to justify their speaking so frequently, but even though the relationship is none of these company, the truth that the LW therefore the girlfriend that is new met now i do believe permits the LW some freedom. That I had heard about and wanted to get along with (I’m going to assume that the LW wants that? ) and it went horribly, I might reach out and go, hey, I’m so sorry that went badly if I had been in a situation where a friend brought someone around. She does not fundamentally need certainly to say, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend happens to be saying _____ in my experience and he’s the main one calling, and then he said you had been ok with this particular, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly, I became underneath the impression you had been okay with your being buddies, but i simply understood I’m perhaps maybe not ok with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”

Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july

I’dn’t speak with the gf concerning this. If I had been dating some body for 2 months the very last thing i might wish is the ex of three years reaching off to me. And simply to inform you that you respect her relationship? I might think you had been bullshitting me personally and playing mind games. Simply simply Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex lover you don’t desire to hear from him for some time, then keep them alone. Genuinely they probably won’t workout them work that out themselves because you are still in the picture (which doesn’t do great things for a new relationship), but let.

Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:39 am july

Oh in addition, if we were the brand new gf and my bf and I also went into their ex at a club I would personally additionally need that individuals leave straight away. It is therefore uncomfortable. Everybody else pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay whenever your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have actually become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of 36 months.

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:28 am